March 16, 2010

My Grandma Ruth Tells Stories About My Dad's Childhood:


*These are stories my Grandma Ruth Eleanora (Erickson) Deahr Shine told me through letters about her son, my Dad, Dennis Allen Deahr's childhood.  The photograph above is Dennis on a family vacation in California-this was at Indian Canyon in Palm Springs.  Photograph at the end is from the same day.

Grandma Ruth: "Now for a little funny episode in the life of Dennis at about four years old...  He had a towel thrown over his head and was creeping on the floor.  I asked him if he would please run upstairs and get a diaper for Howard.  Dennis looked at me real shocked and said,'I can't~I'm a cat!' and I said,'Well, you can be a smart cat, can't you?'.  'Nope, this is a dumb cat,' he said.  He was such an adorable little guy, and funny!"
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"You asked me to write some funny things that Dennis said when he was little.  Dennis never liked anything but Cheerios, and one day I had his lunch ready but he didn't want anything to eat.  I told him,'it is windy out, if you don't eat, the wind is going to blow you away.'  He didn't seem to be troubled by that.  He grabbed his red straw hat and went out the kitchen door.  He just got to the bottom step of the porch and the wind took his little red hat, it blew all over the back yard.  He scrambled to get a hold of it but it was a struggle.  When he finally got it, he came back in the kitchen and said,'I guess I better eat some lunch!'  What a darling he was!"
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"Before I write so much I won't get it in an envelope, I'll write about Dennis as a kid.  He and I were in Wisconsin~in my Mother's strawberry patch.  I told Dennis about a man who almost had his arm cut off~how much it bled and all the gory details.  He grabbed his stomach and said,'ooh that makes me sick!'  He was quiet for awhile and then he said,'Tell that again Mom!'  He was such a little darling.  When he grew up he was a big darling."
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"When Dennis was in first grade, he had a teacher by the name of Miss Oliphant.  He disliked her very much and he hated to go to school.  He wanted to stay home and he said,'I'd rather face a pistol than that elephant!'  Dennis had such a remarkable record in high school, he never missed one day-perfect attendance.  I'll write more later.  Love you~Gram"

Grandma Alma Leona (Popp) Lech, on Hot Springs Hotel:


*The page above is from a scrapbook I am making for my Grandma Alma-this photo above and the photo at the end were taken at a wedding she went to with my Grandpa Ed.  The stories below were semi-secretly recorded and transcribed word for word by me, so these are the words of Alma Leona (Popp) Lech.  Enjoy!

Hot Springs Hotel! …And we went in a Brand New Chevy Truck, all us kids, in the back, Dad put a mattress in the back…and on the way there, we were picking up beautiful stones in the mountains, you know, pretty things to pick up, and laid them in the truck. And coming home, we left on a real cloudy morning, and some elderly woman ran into us. She was going right we were going left, and we plowed…we slammed into one another. Well, nobody was seriously hurt. My Mom hurt her knee pretty bad. I was just shocked…I was a little kid. They took us back to our Hot Springs Hotel, it was outside of Hot Springs . We stayed there for weeks until the case was settled. My two brothers hitchhiked home to Kansas , so they might be able to sell something in Dad’s shoe shop, you know, or whatever they had. And, um, we had a blast. I met two other nice girls, and my Dad…we didn’t have any money, my Dad would…I used a lot of bobby pins, in those days, to curl my hair, and when he was walking around town, or the swimming pool, if he saw a bobby pin, he’d bring it home to me, so I could fix my hair. He was a real loving Dad. And…got to know these girls, and one night, we got permission from my parents to go downtown to this Indian Jamboree they were having, you know, Indians were always fascinating. So many Indians from South Dakota …real, they were costumed and everything. And…was this big hall where they had food and drinks and dancing, I was fascinated by all this cause I’d never been on a dance floor. I don’t know if I was twelve, no, I was older than that, I think I was thirteen. Yeah, and, those girls promised Dad they’d have me home by a certain time. Well, they didn’t know my Dad. We didn’t get home at eleven I think it was closer to twelve, and he’s sitting out in front of the hotel room on a bench, and he grounded me for a week. And this girl just pleaded,”Dad, it was my fault, I’m the one that talked her into staying downtown.” He wouldn’t give up. Anyway, it worked out alright, but he was strict, you said you were gonna be home you better be home. And, the swimming pool, it was the Hot Springs Pool. And Richard was a little boy, eighteen months old. Ginny wasn’t even born. And he learned to swim, like a fish. He…they’d take him up in the tower, and jump…there was always somebody down there to catch him, he couldn’t drown. And he loved it, he just loved it. He was a swimmer from then on. And, inside they had an indoor pool. It was open up to the outside. And I couldn’t swim, I was never a good swimmer. My Dad, one night, I wanted~I was so proud, I’d been practicing during the day. I wanted to show him how good I could swim, I could swim across the pool. So, he’s on one end waiting for me and I’m over here. And I start across. And I look up, he’s looking…panic! “ Alma ’s going down, she’s going down!” I never did learn to swim, never did, no, never did. Can you swim? It’s funny, isn’t it? My Mother couldn’t swim either. All my brothers and sisters are good swimmers, but me. I don’t know why. My Dad was a good swimmer, but my Mom, she just… And then, Neva …she met a cute little boy, little romance, little kids…he took us, he wanted us to meet his Mother, to a house on a hill, they lived up in the house. His mother was a real modern woman, and my Mother was old~fashioned, and so I knew they weren’t gonna hit it off. They were fine, but nothing came of it. Anyway, years later, they had carved, Neva and this little boy had carved their initials in the stone of the pool. And, years later, they came to Kansas , and she was so disappointed, cause he was so cute as a little boy and I guess he was still nice looking but wasn’t that cute anymore. And I guess they corresponded for awhile. So when she and Vernie went back there, years later, she looked for those initials and she saw them. She found the initials. So, finally, when we got out of there, I think I was a sophomore in high school, I must have been fourteen or fifteen. We got back to Kansas and I had to go back to school. That was hard, my brothers hadn’t done too great and getting any money together. I felt sorry for them anyway. Two young kids hitchhiking home, and…oh, in those days, everybody did it. In those days, a bum would come to your door, you’d call him a bum, because they’d ride the rails, they’d hop the cars, railroad cars, and they’d just look for work. And so they’d knock at the back door and Mom would answer…”If you have any work to be done I would love to do it for a meal.” So she’d have them chop some wood or something that had to be done out in the yard. She’d fix them a meal. But, these days, you don’t open your door to strangers, it’s a different world. There’s not that trust because of the weird ones that run around.
 

March 13, 2010

Grandma Alma Leona (Popp) Lech, on her childhood:

 *The stories below were semi-secretly recorded and transcribed word for word by me, so these are the words of Alma Leona (Popp) Lech.  Enjoy!

"I fell on a bunch of metal heavy pipes laying against the neighbor's garage.  And we decided it'd be fun to roll those pipes with our feet.  I think that's when it happened.  Can you see my nose?  It changed the shape of my nose, I'd probably have a little wider nose if it wasn't for that.

...We were across the street from the Baptist church at the edge of town.  And back of that church were fields, and a biiig tempting haystack with a big pitchfork in it.  And Dad just kept warning us,'Don't ever go near that haystack.'  So guess what?  That's right where Elmer (her brother) went.  And he got the pitchfork through his foot.  So, I don't know if he pulled it out, I don't know how we got him to the doctor, I can't remember.  He was alright. 

There was another story that made me think of...  Oh!  My Dad, we went to a wedding once in the afternoon, and while my Dad went in church...we had to stay in the car for some reason...and he left the camera.  He said,'Doooon't touch it!'  What do you think we did??  We played with the camera all afternoon!  He was about ready to throw us all out!  In those days, you know, you had a camera and you had film~there weren't chances to take it over again."~All Grandma Alma :)


March 10, 2010

Grandma Alma Leona (Popp) Lech, on diamond ice:

"One winter morning, when I was about seven or eight years old, I was walking from home to my Dad's shoe repair shop on main street, about two blocks.  We'd had an ice storm the night before and now the sun was shining, a brilliant morning and the ice-coated trees sparkled like diamonds.  It was so beautiful it was enchanting!  I don't know why I was going downtown but I'll never forget the beauty of that morning."~Grandma Alma

February 3, 2010

Sue & Dennis Dancing:

Suzanne Victoria (Lech) Deahr and Dennis Allen Deahr dance at their wedding reception, on July 31, 1971!

January 26, 2010

Jessica's Moment of Ocean Zen:

Jessica Anne Deahr, photograph taken with film camera, no special effects, it just showed up this way!  This was taken after our Maui vacation in May 1999, here we were near Diamondback waiting to go to the airport to go home.